Friday, April 27, 2012

We are Family....We love SportS Psychology..!



Conducting an event maybe such a simple and easy work to be done by some of people. But for me who is an amateur in this field might think twice before accepting such a huge responsibility as one of the component in realizing the program. As the task from our beloved lecturer, we are given the responsibility to conduct a seminar related to Sport Psychology. After having couple of meetings, we have decided to conduct a seminar entitled “One Day Seminar on Sport Psychology” that covers topic about diet, health, motivation and future prospect in Sport Psychology.
            The leader which is Program Manager had been chosen, and the task had been given to every members of the class. Holding task ask sub-committee for Catering Bureau,  even though not such a significant like Program Manager, Secretary, Financial Controller etc, for me that task is one of the important and crucial part in every event. Providing and managing food during the event is such a gigantic responsibility. For me, when I deal with this task, I have to make sure the quality, quantity and the price of the food is in the best condition. Even though people might think that being only for a sub-committee cannot supply us with significant quality of a leader, but for me being a sub-committee is a necessary part before holding the position as a leader. Feel and experience the basic and small part of the task is the component that will generates and build an effective leader that equipped with good characteristics and moral values.
            Being a leader to oneself is more crucial part before we want to lead others. Thus, for me everyone is a leader……responsible to manage himself for achieving his goal and the betterment of the ummah. Thus, just like my Ustazah in my secondary school, we are free on being what we want to be, but we are responsible for what decision and action that we had done. Leading our self to achieve the goal that parallel with al-Qur’an and Sunnah is our mission in this world.
            During the process of getting the best caterer for the seminar, my head of Catering Bureau and my sub-committee clique had face a lot of issues and problem when dealing with the price. By given a small amount of budget, it is impossible for my bureau to manage in getting caterer to supply their food for us. Alhamdullillah…finally, by the endeavor and effort that had done by my team, we manage to get caterer that really understand our budget constraint and limit. Thanks a lot to Evoke Café because its generosity to offer the lowest price that we also quite surprise when heard about it. Besides that, my clique also able to get some “kuih” sponsored by Aminah’s café. When thinking again about it, I remember what Dr. Harris mentioned in my Organizational Psychology class, “When energy which comes from every team member’s effort…..combined together, it will form synergy.” He said that, the capability of synergy is more and extra powerful compared to energy. Thanks also to my Head of Catering Bureau because always give us motivation in fulfilling our task. This characteristic that portrayed by him, I think can make him as an effective leader because he had bestowed with the capacity to motivate people around him. Besides that, I can describe him as the one who listen to every people opinion and open to constructive criticism. This quality should be own by every leader in order to be fair and justice to others. Thus, by having this kind of personality, it can be the platform in improving task and the quality of performance for every individual.
            The second challenge that for me is the difficult one that I had faced is when giving the responsibility to be an MC for the seminar. When the Program Manager announces that I am the one who will handle the seminar, I cannot say using mouth how afraid I was. Why they give me such a huge responsibility to handle the seminar even though they know that I am among the most “silent” person in the class embellish with an introvert personality? I wondered why such decision made by them. They had paired me with Faiza which is I know her since in Nilai Campus (kitorang budak tukar kos She’s from ICT, and I’m from Nursing- since semua budak tukar kos ditempatkan kat satu kelas…so memang dh lame jugak ar kenal..) make me feel a little bit comfortable because she had experience in handling event. Thus, she can help me latter. Without asking why, I just accept the responsibility that had given to me. For me, this is the way on how to challenge my self to increase my self confident in public. However, somehow I feel very afraid and always imagine what I should do when I make mistakes during that seminar. My self is the strongest enemy that I should fight. Thus, I said to myself that I can do it and I can. I had done a lot of practice together with Faiza and the practices somehow give me strength and ability to brave my self handling the seminar.
            During the seminar, my heartbeat increase drastically but I manage to overcome it by “Selawat” and correct breathing technique that had been teach by my beloved lecturer which is Dr. Hariyati Shahrima, the back bone of the seminar. There are a lot of problem that we encountered during the four sessions on the day of the seminar. Among of the problems are the guest speaker late to come, the foods arrived a bit late, and many more. Due this kind of problem, my script had to be revised on the spot and it makes me feel anxious and nervous. I really afraid if the audiences feel bad about me and annoy with my words. Alhamdulillah, with all the difficulties that happened to me and Faiza, we manage to deal with it. This is due to the strong team spirit that we demonstrate during the seminar. Every plan A come with plan B and the other plan and finally we manage to handle the seminar until the end. Teamwork is the major element that contributing to the successful seminar that we conduct. Even though frankly speaking on the rehearsal (the night before the seminar) we had faced a lot of conflict that creates tense to that moment, Alhamdulillah we are able to put aside our personal problems and be professional. By putting aside our personal problem with the other team members and focus to our goal in making the seminar run in the finest way, our request had been realize by Allah (S.W.T). Even though there are a few flaws that can be identify, for me we had done a great job. With such an enormous difficulties, I think we are able to minimize the impact of the problem and able to find the solution of it. The successful of the seminar I think may due to such a great teamwork that we had done in realizing the event. Crucial problems like not enough space to allocate the participants, late arrival of food and speakers, and the unexpected numbers of participants had been able to settle by us. “Bagai aur dengan tebing” I think that is the best sentence that can describe us. Although we are different in term of personality or whatever it is, we have to lend a hand with each other so that we can able to achieve our goal and act in the harmonious way. For me, the conflicts with each other somehow are the element in the process of manifesting an excellent relationship with others. Conflict can make us understand each other, and by the conflict itself we will able to improve the weaknesses that we have in order to be a better person. Team is like a bunch of wood, difficult to break it. That is why the reason why Islam really emphasize about the importance of brotherhood and ummah. Making the “Muhajirin” and “Ansar” is the most easiest and ideal example that we can take. Without having solidarity and cohesion, our society will prone to destruction and damage. Thus, teamwork is very important in order to equip us with the best strategy and solutions in order to realize our goal and for the betterment of the ummah..I have learned a lot from this seminar...and it answer my question why our lecturer really want us to manifest her idea to make the seminar..There are a lot of weaknesses in me that i should improve..and the best think about the seminar is...WE ARE FAMILY....having such a happy and difficult moment together...make me really appreciate my friends..my lecturer..oh...i love u guys.......(ok guys...enough..enough...tears is coming)..tq 4 reading...khamsahamnida!

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